Sunday, February 19, 2012

Allons Dancer et Manger Part II (Come eat and dance)
Join us Sunday Feb 19th, 11am – 1pm for some GREAT music by
Horace Trahan & The Ossun Express!
(NO admission fee)
Concert will be held in the parking lot at Meche’s Donuts in New Iberia.
403 East St. Peter
It’s our “End of King Cake Season” Mardi Gras Celebration!
A street dance at 11 AM? At a donut shop parking lot in New Iberia? And Horace Trahan and The Ossun Express playing? This I’ve got to see.
The first King Cake “Allons Dancer et Manger” (Let’s go eat and dance) with Horace Trahan and The Ossun Express was so much fun that owners Debbi and John Smith put this little Mardi Gras street party on their calendar this year. Music and dancing, red beans and rice, grits and gravy…around here you don’t have one without the other.
Now we have to add donuts and dancing.
Dances can begin any time between 8:00 AM and 10:00 PM. Some come to listen, some to dance. And a roof isn’t a requirement. Plenty of dances are held in asphalt parking lots and city parks and local streets.
As advertised, there’s Horace and his band on a stage erected in front of Meche’s Donuts. A small happy crowd of friends, neighbors, and a handful of dancers from all over the country who are in nearby Lafayette for the zillions of Cajun and Zydeco dances going on during Mardi Gras fill the small parking lot off the street running right through New Iberia.
Horace is a fine musician and songwriter. His gritty lyrics to songs like "Keep Walking," "Same Knife Cut The Sheep Cut The Goat," and "You'll Never Make It If You Don't Try" are written by a man who's walked down some rough roads. Earnest and talented, perhaps even shy, Horace often seems reserved on stage. Not today. He’s totally relaxed, extemporaneously adding verses to several songs and singing his ‘message’ songs with more amped up passion than I’ve ever heard. (Listen to samples of “You’ll Never Make It If You Don’t Try” and “When Love Takes Over” and “La Reunion” on and you’ll get the idea.)
Horace is feelin’ the love and he’s sending it right back.
And why not? His lovely wife Chantelle is heaving armloads of Mardi Gras beads into the crowd, his guitar player Paul “Cook” Morvant, Jr.’s mom and his family is standing in front of the bandstand, and stellar saxophone/flute player Doug Garb is a home town boy.
Always in the groove, Jean Prejean from down the road apiece in Lafayette is laying down the bass lines. Young Shane Bernard is crisply making percussion and his dad Rodney Bernard from Carencro is deftly rattling on the frattoir (rub board). Oh, and Rodney Bernard is Horace’s father-in-law!
“Chef Sweeney,” an outgoing Meche’s employee (“He’s our mascot,” laughs an employee) dances through the crowd in an outlandishly fabulous Mardi Gras costume, complete with Mardi Gras umbrella, hamming it up and posing gleefully for photos.
Owners Debbi and John Smith have created a Mardi Gras King Cake on a table so huge you could probably land a small plane on it. Their staff will cut it up and pass out big chunks during Horace’s first break. At the other end of the store, customers are lined up at the counter picking up their favorite home-made-that-morning donuts. Meche's is a destination for families after church on Sunday morning. After tasting the King Cake today, I see why they come every other day of the week, too.
The crowd is the usual Louisiana mix of folks enjoying the music from the comfort of the folding camp chairs they’ve brought along, dancers who never sit down and will dance in asphalt parking lots, grassy fields, or streets, and bystanders who’ve come to see what the hell is going on.
As always down here, people are ready to have a friendly chat. Like the former Navy man I talk with who spent some time in New England during his tours and has returned home to Lafayette to care for his dad. We laugh about New England reserve and southwest Louisiana warmth. When you pass someone on the street here, expect a “Good Morning, how you doing today?” Not exactly a hallmark interaction in Boston, where passersby rarely glance at each other, let alone greet one another. Down here, whether you’re at a dance, diner, or festival, people are engaging, helpful, and always ready to strike up a conversation.
Once we arrive, we don’t leave till the shindig is over. As they say here, this a way “to pass a good time.”
I’ve been to plenty of street dances, but one that takes place at a donut shop takes the cake…and since it’s Mardi Gras week, let’s make that a King Cake.
Photos by Paul A. Tamburello, Jr.

Big line for scrumptious King Cake during the first break.

Chantelle Trahan and pt whoop it up with Chef Sweeney.

The band plays on..Horace, Jean Prejean, Rodney Bernard

Chantelle and Chef Sweeney lead the party by example - and of course there's a donut eating contest!
Photos by Paul A. Tamburello, Jr.
PT and Liz

"I'm 88 going on 28," says Liz as she grabs my hand with a hearty grip. Liz Galatis Benoit of New Iberia says her uncle Lenis Roselet "used to pick me up and dance with me when I was 8 years old."
‘I don’t take any medicine, even an aspirin,’ she says, jutting her jaw forward to make the point.
"She wears me out," says her 46 year old grand-daughter. Liz is barely 5 feet tall and must have been some fire cracker in her day. Actually, her fuse is still lit!
POST SCRIPT 1
Horace always finishes his show with an a cappella version of “Lean On Me." The audience sings the chorus, often linked arm in arm. “We’re in tears sometimes by the time we finish that song,” Cook Morvant’s mom says as Horace finishes the set. When Horace says, "Where ever y'all go this morning be careful, be safe, thank you." it’s not a litany. It's the gospel according to Horace Trahan, a man who’s been through hard times and found the road back.
POST SCRIPT 2
Louisiana hospitality: Rodney Bernard, flashes a wide smile when I re-introduce myself after the show. I first met him New Year's Day 2011 at Slim’s Yi Ki Ki Lounge in Opelousas during the Carrier Family Fund Raiser, “Keeping Roy’s Dream Alive.” I’d written about Horace earlier in the year, sent my story to his daughter, Horace’s wife Chantelle, and wanted to say hello to her dad.
Mr. Bernard took the time to time to talk with me that day, told me about growing up on his grandfather’s farm in Carenco and how his grandfather, who played accordion, started him playing with spoons on the washboard when he was a kid. I was amazed that he’d take the time to talk with a total stranger, a visitor from Boston, and that he’d extended an invitation to call him up another time I visited Lafayette. Where else does this happen?
“Have you met my other daughter?” he says today and introduces me to Sheila, who introduces me to Peter Nelson, her husband, who introduces me to his father!
People ask me why I keep returning to Louisiana. Simply put, the people of the prairies of this state have a claim on my heart.
Grums: Family Restaurant With Deep Roots in Westport MA
There are many reasons to head to Westport MA this summer: thousands head to the sandy stretches of Horseneck State Beach, some aim for high end restaurants like The Back Eddy, some for the laid back eateries on Main Road - Ten Cousins, Marguerite's, Village Pizza, and The Bittersweet Restaurant. Many of the locals and perennial summer residents head for Grums. It's sort of like walking in the back door of a friend's house and finding yourself in the kitchen. The practical menu is loaded with reasonably priced comfort food made from scratch from as many local sources as the owner can find.
Grums Family Restaurant
On today’s list of specials (there’s a hand printed list every day) – my choice is chowder and cakes. The clam chowder is New England style in a light milky broth, loaded with plenty of cubed potatoes and chunks of clams from local clam beds. The three deep fried golden clam cakes are breaded and filled with enough bits of clam to give authority to the trio.
Among the seven working at Grums today, there’s Kim, her daughters Kelsey 17, Katelyn 19, and her mother Joan. “Mom bakes pies, runs errands, preps food - she does whatever needs to be done at the moment,” Kim says.
140 Charlotte White Road Extension
Westport, MA
Open 7 days: Mon –Wed 6 AM-2 PM, Thurs-Sun 6AM-8PM
508-636-0550
Friday July 6, 2012
12:30 PM
It’s no wonder that Grums Family Restaurant has a homey feel to it. Most of the family works here. Named after the grand matriarch of Kim Jagmin’s family, three generations are here during my visit for lunch. So are a local cop, a farmer, several retirees, and a family of three.
Just about everything that comes out of the kitchen is made here from scratch, no cans or commercially prepared jars of the tartar sauce that arrives with my clam cakes. “The chicken soup is my grandmother’s recipe and the brown bread we serve is from a recipe I learned growing up in Westport,” Kim says.
After working for 17 and a half years at The Kozy Nook, a popular restaurant on Route 6 in Westport, Kim got the itch to own her own place. “I’ve always wanted to run a family restaurant but early on I wanted to spend time with my kids. Now that they’re older, I do because my two daughters work with me right here.”
“My mother used to work with Kim at the Kozy Nook,” says Stephanie, another young waitress. Kim’s dad may not be there physically but runs errands and helps from afar. This pretty much defines the idea of a family restaurant.
Photo: back row Kim, Joan, Betsy, Angela, Katelyn; front row Stephanie, Kelsey
“Grums” was the closest Kim’s brother could come to pronouncing “Grandma” when he was a toddler and the name stuck. Her photo is prominently displayed on the wall. From her fixed gaze, it appears not much got past her and is probably the only inspiration Kim needs to be sure everything is done just so.
“We make a point of being an affordable restaurant. I work with what my customers want as much as I can. I had some customers who wanted Rhode Island Style Jonny Cakes so I went to Gray's Grist Mill on Adamsville Road in Westport, bought their stone milled flour and now we serve them.”
“I actually see my family more now than I did before I opened. We all have busy lives, but my aunts and uncles and cousins come here to eat every two weeks or so. My aunt will be here Sunday morning,” Kim says.
“We are one big team,” Kim says. If you’ve been here more than once, Katelyn or Kelsey will recognize you and welcome you back. And every so often, Kim wipes her brow, pushes out the swinging door and heads from the kitchen to the serving area to chat up her customers.
“They’re friendly but don’t overdo it,” longtime Westport resident Paul Maurice says, “they make sure you’re happy with your meal and let you eat it in peace.” Mr. Maurice knew Kim Jagmin from the Kozy Nook. When he heard she was taking a stab at running her own place, he became a regular. “It saves me 20 miles round trip and the food is excellent.”
This is not a job for the faint of heart, no matter how many family members pitch in to help. Grums is open 7 days a week, 365 days a year, except for five major holidays. Even when you’re chasing your dream, it’s a labor of love.
Westport needs an eatery like this. A restaurant has been here on Charlotte White Road for generations. Spooners was here for ages then within a succession of several years Virginia’s, TJs, Erica’s - and now Grums. That young family of three can eat here without breaking the bank. And if they’re like me, they’ll be back soon.
Grum’s first anniversary will be August 16, 2012. If family togetherness has anything to do with longevity and success, maybe this time is the charm.
Photos by Paul A. Tamburello, Jr.
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Kim Jagmin makes a "Specials" menu every day. "It depends on what I have in the kitchen and what I find at the markets," she says.
Sketches of daughters Katelyn and Kelsey; Kim and Kelsey behind the counter.
The restaurant is small enough to retain a friendly, family vibe. "One of the things I like best is when customers start talking to each other between tables whether they know each other or have come in for the first time," Katelyn says.
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