While roaming through the halls of the Boston Design Center I felt as if I'd mistakenly wandered into Donald Trump’s living room and might be politely but firmly be asked to leave. Every showroom and window display oozes luxury. It’s a parallel universe of home décor.
The hard wiring of any poor soul with pedestrian taste or finite financial means begins to melt in the face of such opulence. Comparisons can be odious. I speculate how I will feel when I return to my modest abode and survey the décor, which, until this moment in time, I complacently thought was a light year from the Salvation Army furniture in my graduate school days and represented the achievement of a man with a relatively refined sense of taste.
Not.
Unique shapes and sizes of lamps, lampshades, and light fixtures sprout everywhere. Bureaus, sculptures, coffee tables, mirrors, objets d’art, etegiers, fabric, and rugs are exquisitely arranged and haughtily priced.
I spot the price tag on the comfy armchair I’ve slumped into to absorb the Louis XIV-ness of the showroom. The “Hydrangea cream armchair with chateau finish” is priced at $2438. That surpasses the cost of every stick of furniture in my living room. The total retail cost of all the items in the spacious Grand Rapids Furniture Company must rival the national debt of certain small countries.
How do people afford this stuff? I leave the second floor in a mild state of sticker shock.
More of same on the 3rd level plus a good helping of antiques. And several bathroom showcases like the one named “Urban Archaeology” that elevate lavatory experiences to a level a sybarite swoons over. Slabs of marble, granite, glass, tile, and stainless steel utterly seduce the senses. I can see myself living languorously in the loo for about a week. Friends and food just a cell call away.
By the time I’ve surveyed the 4th and 5th floors I’m exhausted. And spent tens of thousands of dollars in my head on bamboo flooring, marble and stainless bathrooms, elegant sconces and table lamps, plush Persian rugs, walnut and mahogany tables, and accessories I never knew I needed.
What makes a house a home? How about the sun streaming in the windows and a collection of furnishings that feels as comfortable as an old flannel shirt. That’s what I’ll find when I turn the key into the old homestead later this afternoon. And be grateful for its whisper, “You’re home…”
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http://www.bostondesign.com/
Memorial Day, May 28, 2007, Westport, Massachusetts
Nothing in the worid like a parade in small town America. For a precious hour or two, citizens leave the headlines at home and bring a folding chair to the side of the road on Main Street, USA, to honor the people - war veterans, national guard, firemen, police, - who enforce the rule of law and protect us from natural and man made disasters.
The men in the uniforms might be our fathers, uncles, brothers, or neighbors. They served in WWII, Korea, Viet Nam, and the Gulf Wars. They may be losing the battle to fit into their old uniforms but they’ve won our respect by fighting for us. No matter where you stand on the political divide, it brings a lump to your throat every time a color guard passes and bystanders quietly doff their hats, salute, or place right hands over their hearts.
And when there’s a snappy marching band playing “Stars and Stripes Forever” and other John Philips Souza tunes, we shed, for a few precious moments, the labels of Democrat, Republican, Liberal, Conservative, and simply embrace being American.
In the half mile from the Town Hall to Beech Grove Cemetery and then back, a small town like Westport, Massachusetts, takes a giant time out as some sort of benign patriotic fairy dust settles over the parade route. Bystanders appreciatively applaud the small knots of police, fire, war vets- even politicians - who pass along in loose formation.
Everyone perks up when the band launches into a jubilant brass, drums and cymbals marching tune. “That music stiffened up our old backs, “ said a grateful Korean War vet.
The folding chair brigades, some of whom have sat in the same spot for generations, holler in delighted recognition when they see their young, in the uniforms of cub and boy scouts, brownie and girl scouts, who are the caboose of this parade,
Smiling into the crowd when they hear family calling their names, kids bob and weave along, kept in some semblance of order by patient and bemused Scout Masters and Mothers. In a generation or two, the veterans in the forefront will have made their last march into the cemetery. The chatty little kids taking up the rear today will be up in front wearing the uniforms of their elders.
One hopes that the campaigns that they will have waged involved filling sandbags for hurricane abatement rather than trying to avoid IEDs in some country half a world away.
May 30, 2007 in Commentaries | Permalink | Comments (2)