Olmue, Chile
January 15, 2011
A highlight of my annual January visit to Chile has been to witness the wedding of my host Ricardo Ceriani's son, Ricky. Ricky and his wife-to-be, CarmenGloria Diaz Allende, were determined to have a large, festive, wedding and reception. Recent college graduates working as biological researchers, with plans for future education in the works, they must each have minored in "Event Planning."
The entire wedding was a blast. The 8 PM service at the church in Olmue was presided over by, from what I could tell by the occasional roll of the eyes of the attendees, a very conservative, catechism-oriented, don't wait to have children, start your family as soon as you get home, grasp and act according to the vows and duties of marriage kind of sermon. Somewhere along the line, he didn’t dwell on the joys and rewards of a married life. No matter.
The 200 guests took it upon themselves to balance that rather dour start as soon as they reached the reception at about 9:30 PM. The Casa de Pelumpen is a terrific venue just outside of Olmue, with a wide patio, reflecting pool, and soft outdoor lighting. Servers circulated tray after tray of pisco sours with fresh strawberry, mango, and pineapple mixed with an alcoholic octane that elevated the festive mood several notches. Right behind every beverage tray came trays of tasty hors d'oeuvres, just enough to tide us over till dinner and relax us, not that that was much of a problem.
The arrival of the newlyweds an hour later ignited a round of jubilation and several million pixels of digital photography. Not long after their entrance, we were summoned to the huge dining room. A pool sized dance floor dominated the middle, the table of the wedding couple and family occupied the place of honor and was surrounded by assigned tables for the guests. A long table that could double as a runway for a small plane bordered the left side of the room. The four wedding cakes elegantly presented on four tiers as an exclamation point at the far end was a sign that this would become the dessert table.
Table 4 was one of the most fun places to be in the room. The Ceriani family loves to joke, tease and laugh. With Ricardo's sisters Uka and Erica and their husbands and his brother Nano and his wife from Montreal, there was never a dull moment. Susaan, Ricardo's nephew Cristian, and I were regaled by their joviality all night long. There is no language barrier when it comes to weddings. Toasts, greetings, hugs, applause at the right moments are universally understood. A smile crosses the language barrier with the speed of light.
The orchestration of the event was grand. The sit down dinner began with a perfectly flavored serving of shrimp ceviche. Servers bearing white and red wine, juices, colas and carbonated water appeared and reappeared to make sure everyone's thirst was quenched. Just as the guests finished their appetizer, the disk jockey - not the annoying kind who sounds more like a sports announcer hollering 'Goaaaaaal!!!" but a guy who knows all he has to do is announce and the assembled crowd will fulfill their role - heralded the entry of the bride and groom - and another several million pixels of digital camera photos and enough camera flashes to light a Chinese New Year ensued.
The father of the bride offered a heartfelt toast to his daughter CarmenGloria and his new son-in-law, Ricardo's son Ricky. An impeccably served dinner followed - tenderloin of pork with white sauce, tenderloin of beef with brown sauce, julienned vegetables, half a red pepper filled with creamed spinach and a puff pastry filled with pureed mushroom. Wine, mineral water, coke, and mixed drinks were offered all night long. Unseen behind a one-way mirror, the DJ played romantic 1980s music during dinner, American songs, well chosen and just the right volume for mood without drowning out conversation. The mood was in permanent festive gear – and the volume of the music…well, that would change.
Dinner plates were cleared. The dessert table, a veritable theme park for anyone with a sweet tooth, was opened. If the room were an ocean liner, it would have listed hard to starboard. A chocolate fountain anchored the center of the table. Guests bathed fresh strawberries in chocolate and piled custards, cakes, mousses onto plates. My eyes glazed over. The tempo of the evening was perfect. Just enough time to digest each section - the social hour, the dinner hour, the dessert hour - yes, if you're counting, we're already past midnight.
The guests rose as one to cheer when Ricky and CarmenGloria stepped out for the traditional wedding waltz at midnight. The couple was joined by family members who filtered onto the floor to waltz with each other. Eight beats after the stately waltz concluded, and BAM - an acoustic explosion. The lights were dimmed, the volume jacked up and the room was struck by Chilean lightning - the pulsing beat of cumbia.
It was as if the lifeguard at the beach blew a whistle that allowed everyone into the water. Splash!
Stellar sound system and the return of the disco era! One song segues seamlessly into the next. Once you're on the dance floor, you commit yourself - out there for as long as you can move. Men have long since doffed their suit jackets and loosened ties. Women have draped their elegant shawls on their chairs. Faces glisten.
Cumbia is executed with as many stylings as you can imagine. When a particularly popular song hits the airwaves, everyone who's taken a seat charges back to the dance floor. Arms pumping, perspiration dripping - aunties, uncles, teenagers, their parents, college kids, a roomful of partiers shout the choruses.
There are never fewer than 100 people on the dance floor. The tables are mostly empty, everyone is dancing except the lame and the halt. I am sweating, smiling, dancing with CarmenGloria’s grandmother, CarmenGloria’s aunt, with CarmenGloria and women I've never seen before and may never see again... I love cumbia!
The music is still blasting at 2:30 AM when we head for the car. We’re leaving early by Chilean standards. Many of these celebrants will dance till 6 AM.
I am hoping that another of Ricardo's children get married next January.
RIcardo's niece Marcelita photographs entrance as we enter church.

Reception - Ricky and Susaan.A group of guests

Ricardo jokes around with his nephew Cristian and enjoys the atmosphere at Table 4.

Marcelita, pt, and Nicole, another niece. CarmenGloria's grandmother and aunt.

A dessert table to die for... the wedding cakes.

A dance with CarmenGloria's grandmother and with CarmenGloria
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